How to Flirt With Girls — 3 Main Approaches
Posted by Tyler Paxon Ph.D. | Filed under Self Improvement
There are many ways to flirt with girls, but they all fall into three main categories.
You can take the initiative and just say something flirty.
You can wait for them to do something or say something that you have a pre-planned response for.
And you can bait them into doing something that will set up one of your pre-planned responses.
Here’s more detail about each kind of flirting:
PROACTIVE FLIRTING: This is when you initiate some flirtatious behavior or banter. You might bump into her, or look at her funny, or call her a silly name, or make a playfully arrogant statement about yourself. Active flirting can be very effective, if she’s in a receptive frame of mind.
PASSIVE FLIRTING: Passive flirting is great, because it appears spontaneous. A man who is great with passive flirting shows signs of having a very sharp mind. Here’s how you do it: you prepare responses to dozens of common things that women say and do. And then you wait for them to say or do them. Then you act like you just came up with a great response off the top of your head. Here’s an example from Swinggcat: suppose a girl bumps into you accidentally, you can respond by saying “Owww, you hurt me. Now you’re going to have to drive me to the hospital . . .”.
SET-UP FLIRTING: Of course, if you want to look spontaneous, and you don’t want to wait for a girl to say or do something you have a pre-planned response for, you can always bait her into doing something that will set up a flirty response. For instance, you could bait her into bragging about herself by asking her a question like “so, what makes you so special?” Then let her brag. And then hit her with your pre-planned bragging banter line.
So those are three ways to flirt. Did you find them interesting? All three methods are discussed in much more detail in the book “Flirting Deconstructed”.
Tyler Paxon teaches guys How To Flirt With girls. And he teaches girls how to flirt with guys. Discover your flirting IQ with his free flirting assessment at http://how2flirt.com
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