The Subject Of How To Love A Man ?

Posted by Wendy Mason | Filed under Home & Family

Loneliness is a plague in this world in which we live. There are billions and billions of people on the planet, but many of these people live alone. Many of the people who don’t live alone live with extreme loneliness. Women in particular are often looking for information regarding:

a) How to make a man fall in love with the real me

b) How to make a man love you and everything you do

c) How to love a man all the time

d) How to love a guy

e) How to make a man love you all the time

Did you know that a man is a different type of “animal”? Many a woman has spent a sleepless night tossing and turning trying to not only figure them out, but to determine the best way to show that they love that special guy who shares their life. Are presents for men the only way to show that guy that you care? No. In this article we will be exploring the various ways in which you can show that special guy that you deeply care about, and even love him.

Food…

We have all probably heard that the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. For many men this is true. We can’t go so far as to say that the only way to get a man love you is to go through his stomach, but it is true that almost every guy appreciates good food, and all that time and thought that has gone into it’s preparation.

1) To get the ball rolling we will start with the first meal of the day, which is breakfast. How about making some heart-shaped pancakes? If he’s not into pancakes you could do the same thing with toast. You could go one step further and even trim the butter that will accompany the meal into a heart shape. Heart-shaped butter on heart-shaped pancakes or toast. Yum.

2) Lunch comes next. Many men “brown bag” it to work, and this provides you with a great opportunity to show that you love him. Here’s an extra surprise: cook or make his favorite snack and add it with his “usual ole’ sandwich” for that special note saying: “I love you”.

3) The last meal of the day is the evening meal, at least for most people. Even though it’s the last meal of the day, this doesn’t mean that it has to be the least romantic. You could start things off with a dinner via candlelight. Play some romantic and soothing music in the background. That great little bottle of wine. Oh, and don’t forget to make him that special meal that he often raves about.

4) Snacks are often eaten throughout the day, but a romantic snack is a very memorable invent. I wonder, did you have that special treat that you ate together when you first started dating? An ice cream cone and a walk along the lake perhaps? Nobody says that you can’t recreate this experience again by “retracing your steps”. Bring on the romantic snack!

Signs of Affection

Everyone needs to know that people care about them. Men are included in this group ladies! Even those “strong and silent type” guys can get a tear in the eye when they watch a very sad or touching movie. Looking for a way to show that special guy that you love him? Why not try:

1) A hug says so, so much. When he least expects it, why not give him one. Come up from behind, put your arms around him, and give him a great big bear hug. You could whisper “I love you” into his ear. No need to overdo this mind you…keep it special.

2) Listen to that guy in your life. One of the most basic needs of all human beings is the need to be heard. When he comes home after a tough day at the office he might want to rave and complain a bit. Just sit back an listen to what he has to say, and instead of changing the subject, offer “I’m here” responses such as “Hmmm”, “I see”, or “Oh my”.

3) There are some guys who don’t want to talk when they get home from work. They want to unwind. Give them that time. Let them relax and compose themselves. They will probably talk your ear off once they get a chance to relax a bit, but give them their space when they first come home.

4) There are a lot of guys who love a good massage. If you are gifted in this way, why not use your talent? The human touch is a very powerful thing. Gentleness is important…no need to “work him over”. Give him a back rub, or run your fingers through his hair. He will tell you what he likes if you give him the chance. This is a great way for you both to unwind and prepare for the evenings events.

Activities

Many men are adventurous and energetic and love to try out new things. They love to test their manliness. Here are a few activities that will show that you love that special guy:

1) Pure and simple, get out of that special “box” you have built around yourself and do something that you would not normally do. Do you hate football? Instead of complaining about the sport, why not join your man on the couch and try, I mean really try, to understand it. Instead of getting that “ugh” look on your face, why not ask them sincere questions. What’s a first down? What is a quarterback? You know the type of questions we are talking about. He will be taken by surprise at first, but since he loves the game, he will love to explain the finer points to you. If he’s not into football you can do a bit of research before hand to determine what questions to ask. He will remember it…trust me…

2) Does your man have chores that he needs to do? Many guys have something that they need to do around the house on a regular basis. Let’s suppose this happens to be taking out the garbage every week. Why not surprise him by taking it out for him? You could say that since he is especially busy this week you thought that you would help him out. Be sure to indicate why…he may think you really enjoy it and you have found you have a new chore around the house.

3) Pillow fight anyone? Most of us have left pillow fights behind with our childhood…back when we used to jump up and down on the bed. Who says we need to leave all the fun behind when we grow up? Here’s a thought. One night, when you are getting ready for bed, hall off and “wallop” him! He’ll be taken by surprise, for sure…but he might get a kick out of it. Be prepared for him to hall off and “wallop” you back. Let the action begin!

Give Him Compliments

We all love to be complimented in various ways, on our clothes, or our accomplishments or our thoughtfulness. Here are a few great ways to compliment a guy:

1) Compliment your guy when you are out in public. Say nice things about him. Tell your friends what a special guy he is. Tell them how hard he works and how much he cares. You know, word will eventually get back to him. He will be very happy that all of this finer attributes have been noticed by others.

2) Some guys are really into clothes, and they love to show off their “sense of style”. If that special guy in your life loves clothes, be sure that you notice all his efforts, and doubly make sure that you tell him that you notice. He will appreciate the fact that others, especially you, notice.

3) What do you like? Is there something that your man does that you really appreciate? Does he do the dishes from time to time? Does he take the baby out for a walk when you are exhausted? Let him know that those little things he does are really appreciated.

4) You could always leave some little romantic notes in places that he will find them. Why not put one on the bathroom mirror for example? He will see it when he gets up in the morning. Why not put one on the steering wheel of his car? He will see it when he drives to work in the morning.

Get Him A Present

Gift giving is usually reserved for special occasions or holidays. Who says gifts can’t be given at other times? How much more special are those gifts that are given at other times of the year. Let us get you started in your gift giving adventure. We have searched the web and have come up with some gift ideas that we think are very special and unique. How about giving that special man one of these gems:

Our Way Cool Pick #1 - Does that special guy in your life love the outdoors? Does he likes to fish or hunt or hike or camp? I bet that you worry about him when he is away? You realize that he might get lost or hurt or “whatever”. What can you possibly do? Well here is a great little gem of an item that we came across (we didn’t even know that something like this existed). The “Satellite Messenger” is a small 8oz electronic device that will give him the ability to track his adventures and travels into the great outdoors. This device will help you keep “up-to-date” on his current location and his status as well. So, what does all this mean? It means that you will know where he is and if he is in serious trouble. How much is this piece of mind worth to you? This little device can call for help if he needs it, so it might even save his life one day. Backpacker Magazine gave it their 2008 Editor’s Choice Award, so others are raving about it as well. Considering what “peace of mind” this little device will bring, it might be just as much a gift for you as it is for him. Check out our blog for more details and ordering information.

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The Conclusion of the Matter

So what do you think of all this? Have you found this information useful? Have we provided enough examples of how to show that special guy in your life that you love him? We sincerely hope so. If not, our blog has even more info than we can possibly relay in this one single article. If you would like to see some more wonderful presents for men, or more information on those items listed above, please check out our blog at www.WonderfulPresentsForMen.com. For those UNIQUE Christmas gifts, check out: www.ExcellentChristmasList.com.

Have fun loving that guy… :)

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