How to Flirt With Girls — 3 Main Approaches
Posted by Tyler Paxon Ph.D. | Filed under Self Improvement
There are many ways to flirt with girls, but they all fall into three main categories.
You can take the initiative and just say something flirty.
You can wait for them to do something or say something that you have a pre-planned response for.
And you can bait them into doing something that will set up one of your pre-planned responses.
Here’s more detail about each kind of flirting:
PROACTIVE FLIRTING: This is when you initiate some flirtatious behavior or banter. You might bump into her, or look at her funny, or call her a silly name, or make a playfully arrogant statement about yourself. Active flirting can be very effective, if she’s in a receptive frame of mind.
PASSIVE FLIRTING: Passive flirting is great, because it appears spontaneous. A man who is great with passive flirting shows signs of having a very sharp mind. Here’s how you do it: you prepare responses to dozens of common things that women say and do. And then you wait for them to say or do them. Then you act like you just came up with a great response off the top of your head. Here’s an example from Swinggcat: suppose a girl bumps into you accidentally, you can respond by saying “Owww, you hurt me. Now you’re going to have to drive me to the hospital . . .”.
SET-UP FLIRTING: Of course, if you want to look spontaneous, and you don’t want to wait for a girl to say or do something you have a pre-planned response for, you can always bait her into doing something that will set up a flirty response. For instance, you could bait her into bragging about herself by asking her a question like “so, what makes you so special?” Then let her brag. And then hit her with your pre-planned bragging banter line.
So those are three ways to flirt. Did you find them interesting? All three methods are discussed in much more detail in the book “Flirting Deconstructed”.
Tyler Paxon teaches guys How To Flirt With girls. And he teaches girls how to flirt with guys. Discover your flirting IQ with his free flirting assessment at http://how2flirt.com
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How to Effectively Use Humor to Seduce Women
Posted by Maxwell Durden | Filed under Home & Family
Are women naturally attracted to funny guys? To guys that watch as women repeatedly become completely infatuated with men who make them laugh, it will easily seem this way. Even So, there is more to the picture than what is apparent.
Humor alone is not enough to make women attracted to you. What you need to truly attract more women is a combination of humor and seduction — commonly referred to as “flirting.”
What makes flirting so important?
Well, flirting happens to be the single most powerful way to communicate with a women if your goal is to make her more attracted to you. But let me talk a little bit more about why humor alone is not enough to capture a woman’s heart.
It’s obvious that we all love to have a good laugh, and gorgeous women are definitely no exception. Still, just because someone makes you laugh does not make them a candidate for lover, right? The same goes for women as well. All making them laugh (without using flirtatious humor) accomplishes is that it makes women think of you as “just a friend.”
On the other hand, attempting to flirt with a woman in a non funny way is equally self-defeating. If you come on too strong to a woman without mixing humor into your approach, then you risk appearing threatening to her.
It can be difficult for most guys to strike the proper balance between being too friendly and being too overbearing. However, once you become accustomed to flirting with women properly, it becomes easier and easier. Not to mention more fun and rewarding for you!
Most men fully realize that humor plays an important role in having positive interactions with women. However, what most men miss is that humor must be delivered a certain way. Most guys never dream in a million years that there is a right and a wrong way to use humor.
You can’t just come up with some good jokes that make your buddies laugh and expect to have overnight success with women.
You no longer need to be misguided; everyone loves a guy with a sense of humor, but making a woman laugh is not all it’s cracked up to be. Displaying the type of flirtatious humor that will make her giggle should be your objective when speaking with a girl.
If you need more help making women laugh, then this will definitely help you: Make Women Laugh
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